In one of the seminar I attended it is about family problem. I remember how the priest tells this to us parents. The priest topic is how to deal break up. Even though my family intact I still have an interest in this topic. I don’t want to experience this problem but I just want to know what a great advice is for the people who are in this situation.
He said that the first thing to do if you are in this trouble is to;
* Pray. Maybe people are very busy that they tend to forget to pray with their family. And maybe that is the one reason because for me the family that prays together stays together. And yet others don’t know how to use it.
*For the children do not repeat what our parents did. Some parent is not prepared psychologically or emotionally when they entered married life. Don’t thing just because our parents didn’t do well, we won’t do well anymore. And I think this is making pattern because some of people that I know have the same situation. Most of the time they say that their life is pattern on what the life of their parents which means if they are broken home there is a percentage that when they have their own family will also the same. But what the priest said we should not pattern our self on our parent’s life. It is up to the person if she will do the same as their parents do.
*Be a responsible person despite the situation. We have a choice and we should choose to work toward a better life in his future by studying well and being a responsible on all our action. Even your parents are doing foolish we should not do the same. Make our direction in life much better than we have.
We should not lose our capacity to love and be loved. No matter what happen on our family, we should not discourage to love others. Yes thing should not always work the way we want, but still we are entitle to love and be love. If we deny the pain that we feel you just harm your self more. We should cry our grievance. Don’t pretend that you are not in pain. The more we hide it the more pain we feel.
Look for a friend the one who gives good advice and not the one who will give more negative thoughts in life, or go to a community that make you feel a second family. Be positive in life, sooner or later you will cope in the situation. Just look for a star and count your blessings. Sometime our problem is the best way to be more productive and for us to be more stable. Because we know what we are going through we now understand what hurting means and how to deal with it through this experience we can be an instrument to someone who also in this situation.
James Brown writes about http://www.romantictreasure.com
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