So you have met that special guy and you are wondering how to make him fall in love with you. While there is (unfortunately) no magic potion, the good news is that there is a lot you can do to get and keep his interest.
Be Yourself …
Most men are very independent minded creatures and like to make up their own mind about everything. They do not want you to tell them what to do and they do not like to feel they are being led or tricked into liking or disliking something. So there is no point doing things that are not natural to you, to try to please them.
For example, if you hate football, do not pretend to like it just because he is a huge fan. He will know you don’t really care, no matter how much work you do learning the names of all the players. He will just think you are trying to deceive or trap him, and he will run a mile.
… And Love Yourself
Be yourself but do not put yourself down. Many people do this, usually to reassure others that we are not a threat, but people will often take you at your own valuation and it can make them think you are boring. Ask your friends for advice here, or record yourself talking. Do you tend to make yourself look small and uninteresting? If you do, you need to get yourself out of this habit. Try to be aware and think before you speak.
Look after yourself physically. Take exercise and try to eat well. This will make you feel better about yourself, plus you will develop a glow that is naturally healthy and attractive. Love yourself and he is much more likely to love you.
Be Interesting
The best way to be an interesting person is to do interesting things. Have a life. Do not spend every evening waiting for the phone to ring or watching movies on TV. Go to an evening class, meet people, take up a sport you used to like in school.
Be careful not to criticize others, too. Repeating scandalous rumors or saying how much you hate someone will only reflect badly on you. Keep that kind of talk for gossip sessions with your friends, if you have to do it at all.
Admire Him
We tend to like the people who like us, so it is fine to let him know that you like him … as a friend. However, if you have fallen in love at first sight it may be best to keep that to yourself. Let him be the first to say ‘I love you’.
Most men love to be admired. They may run a mile if you try to cling to them, but they will do almost anything for someone who admires them and believes in them without making any demands.
So while it is better to keep your undying love to yourself, at least at the beginning, it is fine to tell him openly that you admire something he does. Any sentence that starts with ‘I really admire the way you …’ is a winner. After the first step of loving yourself and your life, this is one of the best ways to make him fall in love.
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